Sometimes you feel you want to do so many things for either yourself with a loved one or with family but time can be so tight that you feel you don’t have time or put everything on one plate.
I say: think about what it is you really want to do and get your priorities in order. Find something that is suitable and time constraint. If you have a family, find activities that are family based. If you need time with your loved one, you can have a date night but you also have a day date — spend the day where it can be planned or open your spontaneity.